Wednesday, 5 February 2014

The Joy Of Closure

There's this delicious sensation that comes with closure, let me tell you, its powerful juju.


Day before yesterday you would swear I was drunk as fuck from my constant laughter.

If you got loose ends from a relationship, trust me, tie that shit up! You'll rejoice like you found religion and it comes with your favorite chocolate!

Had a cuss out for someone but you stopped because you wanted to be the bigger person, and you did this one too many times and now its weighing on your soul and is the proverbial dark cloud over your head?

Imagine you don't HAVE to cuss them out, contrary to popular belief I have walked away from enough cuss outs that people deserved and then later informed them quite casually that they had it coming, but I chose to be diplomatic, and reconsider my approach, instead of directly cussing them out, I took my time and outlined to them why I chose to not waste my generous tithes of profanities upon their illegitimate asses, and instead chose to be quiet until I had worded my anger in a less vile manner.

End result, closure upon that issue, and the load is lifted, you get to move forward, minus that playing on your mind non stop.

I have actually employed it enough times in life to say its more satisfying that telling ppl off, or holding in anger or deep emotions for prolonged periods of time ...

Incredibly, it physically manifests itself as well, I literally glowed in person, and in capture.

You could see that I "felt better" and it was infectious and exhilarating too, officially recommend tying up loose ends... 

The art of Closure, is one I am eternally grateful to have begun understanding! 

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